space

i think we all need our space to breathe, to think, to be away from people. and i think in any relationship, we need to provide that space to the other party. be it a close friend, a child, a spouse or boy/girlfriend. as much as our human nature shouts to be in control, to grasp tightly without signs of letting go. it's like the bird analogy ain't it, you hold it too tightly it'll suffocate and die, yet if you hold it too tightly it'll fly away. i don't think i agree so much with the latter though. i think i'll let go, but i'll let it go to the One who is in control of everything. and as with any relationship, to give the other party the choice to choose- to fly back to you, or to fly away freely.

i seem to be speaking in riddles. well, this is a public space, and i like i said before i am a very private person. it's the most unusual the i would open up, especially in a public space like this.

i guess i've a lot more to learnt. a lot more to be humble about. i think so far, the past month or so, it's been a humbling experience definitely. do need humility to be unafraid of 'tearing face'.

1.04am already, off i go!