procrastination

my definition of it:

an insidious force that provides you a mirage of an easy way out. truth is, it just takes your problem, stuffs it under your bed - out of sight, out of mind... not so i think. it is only a matter of time when you've got to clean up your room and guess what? the problem's even worst cos it's covered by dust and grime, so you've got extra shit to clean.

don't procrastinate!

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today i called yanling by accident. to my surprise 'she' called back. notice the 'she' as the person who called back was some auntie. had some difficulty explaining to her so i just hung up halfway, guess she got what i meant.

anyway, was just thinking, imagine 5 years down the road (wanted to write 10 but i think more things would have changed by then). would you still be in touch with most of your secondary school friends? doubt so, i don't think i'll even keep in contact with 3/4 of my sec 4 class. but, it doesn't matter... you realise when you go for class gatherings, it feels good to get-together but after a while you're back to your separate lives without crossing each others path unless you make an extra effort to.

to me, a small group of friends is enough... i mean, that surely would suffice. it's better to have a few good friends than to have many acquantainces. besides, the more friends you have, your energy would have to be expended to more people which leaves less for each individual friend, if you're talking about almost equal division.

so i'm happy with the small group of friends i have now.

love you guys...

no need for specifics, you know you are.

i'm sure the bond we share is mutual. ;)